This Affirmation Carried Me Through Hell

Hellllllo fabulous Boss Lady!

Today’s vlog is super good!

So, if you’ve known me for very long, you’ve heard me riff on manifestation.

Teaching people how to manifest is literally my favorite thing. It is what the Money Mentality Makeover, tons of blogs, and millions of Facebook posts are all about.

You may have heard me say this: The First Step of Manifesting is Getting Clear on What You Want.

I live by this principle.

You can imagine my frustration when over the summer I felt so confused/cluttered/conflicted that I couldn’t figure out what I wanted. I couldn’t work my own manifestation steps.

One day, while watching the sunset over the ocean on Labor Day weekend in Montauk, it clicked… “What I want is to be on the other side of this. I must become an energetic match for being on the other side of this.”
This became my affirmation:
“I am on the other side of this.”
“I am on the other side of this with extreme gratitude for this experience.”
“I am looking back seeing how perfect this experience was for me.”
“I am on the other side of this now and I am happy and free.”

I began to act as if everything was already resolved. I began to feel what it would feel like to be on the other side. I felt feelings of relief and freedom from knowing I would soon have the hindsight that would allow me to see the purpose of the experience. I chose to have gratitude for the experience in the midst of the confusion.

And because of this, I began to moved through the experience quickly. Things unraveled. It began to feel clearer. I figured out what I wanted.

Present day: I am on the other side feeling freer than ever before.

Like anything else, moving through is a process, but let’s de-identify ourselves with the problem and become an energetic match for being on the other side of the bullshit.

Say it with me: I am moving through. I am on the other side. I am looking back with gratitude. I see things clearly. I know what to do. I know I am being guided.

I go into more detail in this week’s vlog! Watch below!

I want to hear from you! What do you do when you feel stuck? What’s your favorite affirmation for moving forward?

Share it with me in the comments below. Or in the Spiritual Bad Ass Boss Ladies group, here!

Remember… God is on your side and the Universe has your back!

It’s all happening on purpose. You co-created your current experience on purpose. It will be used in your favorite. Infinite amounts of good will come from it. Trust & know.

PS: Are you coming to my party?! That’s right me and my boo, Andrea Crowder, are hosting a virtual vision board party and you can join us here!