Hi my beautiful friend.
I am so excited about today’s blog.
As you guys know — I teach whatever is real for me. So unlike most of my blogs: This is a love story.
Once upon a time, this guy was introduced into my life via an online connection.
He wants to talk about doing business together. I have been blowing him off for months, but finally, we schedule a call.
We have a meeting via phone and then find ourselves calling one another other multiple times a day. Instant comfort. Super weird for me.
After a few days of this… I stalk this person online and find myself thinking… “Holy Cuss Words. This person is me. Teaches like me. Talks like me. Speaks to my soul. Who the hell is this?? I should probably meet him as quickly as possible.”
I don’t know about you, but I believe in soul-mates. I believe we have more than one. People who we connect with instantly. People we swear we’ve known forever. People our soul calls in to learn from. My little sister. My niece. The guy who lives down the street. They are all different kinds of soul mates.
Sometimes soul-mates show up to shake you. To get you to look at things. To teach you a lesson. To show you what’s possible. To shift your perspective. An encounter with one can rock you to your core. They show up on purpose. They show up right on time. They help move you along your path.
In this situation, my brain had a hard time catching up. Who is this and why are they here? I had been out of a very long relationship for a matter of days. Everything felt so intense. I was falling fast.
Once I looked him in the eyes, my soul felt settled while my brain went crazy.
I was thinking: Holy Eff Word…. I feel like I could plan my life with this person. I could decided to be with them right now without hesitation. Is this that stupid “I just know” feeling everyone always talks about??? What is happening? I was internally so calm but in my brain so freaked out.
Intense words exchanged. Sparks flying. Sharing everything. Strategizing. Planning. Fire.
Strange feelings of instant trust, love and safety. Everything.
Everything I’ve been waiting to feel and trying so hard to feel for my last partner for so long. An experience I didn’t believe I was capable of having. So many qualities I didn’t believe could exist in one person.
And within 12 hours, the guy peaces out. We had never even met in person.
He is going to date someone else. She lives close. I should work on healing from my last relationship. Reasons. Maybe Excuses? Who knows. Whatever.
And then my mind thinks: Maybe you aren’t ready for each other. Maybe the other person just doesn’t like you like that. Maybe everyone is afraid. Maybe this just isn’t it. Maybe you didn’t feel what you thought you felt. Maybe you went too fast. Blah blah blah, blah blah.
But let’s be real. This is the bottom line: You can’t control anyone else. You have no say in what someone else’s path looks like. It’s none of our business what someone else feels they need to do.
Timing. Assignments. Sacred contracts. Phases of life to complete. Things to clean up. Shit to walk out. Timing.
But here is where your power lies: There is tremendous strength in choosing to let someone go. There is massive power in not over analyzing the sitch. There is all kinds of healing to be found in feeling your feelings and releasing the eff out of the experience. There is tremendous positive energy in letting what you felt in any giving moment be real and true for you. And that’s enough. There are no coincidences. You’re feelings aren’t wrong. You felt what you felt. What you felt is never wrong. What you felt is real for you.
What you need is always given to you. And what no longer serves you is always removed.
And what I felt for those few hours, opened up unlimited possibilities for what is possible for me with a future partner. And if that’s all I learn from this, then that is enough.
It’s normal to wonder what the future holds. It’s normal to want things to work out with someone. It’s normal to wonder where/who the one for you is. It’s normal to wish for the one your soul already loves.
Today’s story is really a story about loving yourself, no matter what. And in trusting no matter what. And in releasing continually.
In typically #spiritualbosslady fashion, I feel compelled to ask you to repeat after me.
Say it with me: I am perfect. I am on way. I am a bad ass. I don’t want anyone who doesn’t want me. I don’t want anyone or anything that is not ready for me. ((Really: You don’t want anyone who sees the chance to get to know you/love you/be with you and says no.)) I am amazing. I am right where I am supposed to be. It is safe to let go, release and move on. It is my job to love myself fiercely. It is safe to love others fiercely. I choose to be an incredible partner to myself. I am exactly where I am supposed to be. The right one is one is on their way to me. I will get everything I want and more.
You’ll call in and manifest the right man (or anything else you desire) for you. You are capable of doing this, just like you were always capable of doing all the things you currently know how to do that didn’t always make sense to you. You will get everything you want.
You are already living happily ever after. It’s not a fairytale. It’s a way of seeing things. And you’re doing it.
And you’ve got this. You’ve so got this.
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