A month or two ago, I was teaching inside of my Turning Sh*t into Gold program.
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(Sidenote: TSIG is something of a best-kept secret inside of my work. It’s magical and not as well known as it… will be.)
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As I was teaching, someone asked me:
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How do I know if it’s time to end my relationship? I’ve been asking for signs. And I’m not sure what to do.
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I gave them my best advice.
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The thing is this: We are powerful creators. Inside of relationships, outside of relationship and in the various scenarios and containers of our lives, we are capable of turning shit into gold.
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But sometimes, we don’t want to.
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Sometimes, we feel we shouldn’t. Sometimes, we know that that would not be what is best, right or most healthy for us.
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Sometimes, we need to leave.
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Sometimes, we my feel our path is to be more of an intentional creator inside of the relationship we have… and transform what we feel is truly ours.
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Sometimes, both options are truly available.
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In today’s video and podcast episode, I share, how I decided it was time to end a seven-year relationship I was in, what the clues were for me, and how I ultimately knew what to do. (For what it’s worth, as much as I struggled over the decision, I never regretted it.)
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Watch it here:
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JOURNAL PROMPTS FROM VIDEO:
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If you could not f* it up, what would that mean for this situation?
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What might it look like to really honor myself in this situation?
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What might it look like to honor the other person and still really honor and take care of myself in this situation?
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What do I want. Like really, really want?
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If no one would get hurt, no one would be mad at you and it would work out perfectly, no matter what, then what would I want?
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If you did stay together, what would you want?
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If you did not stay together, what would you want? Explore both.
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What feels most right to you, in your heart, if you had to take a guess?
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Check it out on the iTunes (with a bonus riff included): Look for episode 123.
RELATIONSHIP Q: Is it time to END your relationship.
Check it out on the YouTubes:
RELATIONSHIP Q: Is it time to END your relationship.
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