Hi hi!
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It can be so wildly painful and discouraging when someone you love doesn’t understand what you are trying to create or accomplish when it comes to your life, business, goal or dream.
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Maybe they don’t believe in manifestation, personal development or your ability to change lives as a coach, helper or healer.
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BEEN THERE.
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I can think of several subtle (and some not so subtle) comments, arguments, criticisms, eye rolls, and some overall very skeptical energy from those who I thought should have supported me when I was getting started.
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It hurt… like hell.
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Whether we are talking about your partner, pastor, parent or professor…
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Tip number one: Stop talking.
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I, personally, stopped talking to the vast majority of people about my business.
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I answered Qs confidently and briefly. I shared no struggles outside of the small handful of people who I knew fully got me and believed. With everyone else, no details or specifics were given.
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I did the things first. And I let people ask Qs later.
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And overtime, I was able to let more people — who were beginning to understand what I was up to — in.
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Obviously, all those people believe in me now. Because now we have the evidence.
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Tip two: Stop seeking the approval of anyone who is not you.
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The truth is: I didn’t need them to believe in me then.
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I just thought I did.
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The only person I ever actually needed to believe in me is… me.
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Their approval is not your permission slip.
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I imagine that there may be a circumstance, storyline or relationship in your mind right that feels impossible to apply my approach to.
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You imagine it’s harder or more complicated for you.
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In today’s video I riff on the above and more.
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Remember: Just because they don’t get it or can’t see it doesn’t mean that they don’t love you. Your people want to keep you safe. And sometimes that may mean keeping you small. But it’s not up to them.
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In the end, everyone in your world will line up with what you choose to know to be true. Miracles will occur in the relationships. Or the people will fall away.
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Because you were made for greatness.
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Watch it + leave a comment on the YouTube: Spouse or Parent not Believe in your Dream, Business or Goal? Watch This.
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Listen + leave a review on the iTunes: Does your spouse or parent not believe in your dream, business or goal? Listen now.
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Also!!! My new digital training bundle Soul Alive: Earning through Your Essence will be released later today.
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This is my newest bundle — recorded at the end of 2018 ($2.7 million year) and through 2019 ($3.6 million year) — and it is a vibe.
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There are nine videos included. This is like an energy infusion of doing things your way, by your rules, and receiving your best results. I think you will love, first name.
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Details to come. I love you.
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Like these vibes? I have more where this came from.
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