>> Everything You Create is Powerful, Because You are Powerful <<
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There is a common misbelief in the personal development world that in order for a course, product, training to be powerful it has to take up as much of your time as possible.
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People often believe that no one will sign up unless the offer includes a one-on-one call, tons of live Q&A time, and you spending your whole life in an FB group.
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As a business mentor, this has come up in The Mastermind, my The Creation of Wealth, Affluence and Influence Short Term 1:1, in Sell from Your Soul AND with my private clients this week.
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Listen. This is arrogant. And ridiculous. And will make it impossible to scale your business or help the people you are here to help.
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This mindset will leave you recording and re-recording content, getting yourself all up in every person’s process and business, and feeling responsible for other people’s results.
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Can you imagine if an author believed that in order for their book to be worthy, powerful and transformational that they had to re-write it for each person.
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And then get on the phone with each reader.
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Seems… silly, huh?
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The POINT of digital offers is to help as many people as possible.
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You can’t personally talk to the millions of people who need your work all at once. It’s impossible.
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This is what I have to say to you about this:
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1. Your time and energy are mother fucking sacred.
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I could NOT support the thousands of people in my paid offers and the hundreds of thousands viewing my free content, if I believed that each and every one of them needed direct continual access to me.
I can NOT have that many people pulling on me energetically.
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I learned years ago that it was required to disconnect the people from me and connect them to the body of work.
And to model for others how to receive stability from anchoring into your own self, instead of anchoring into someone else.
(For more on regarding your time and energy as sacred, check out this vlog.)
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2. They don’t need you.
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They need your energy, process, and understanding.
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These things can be contained inside a course, program or body of work.
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The program is powerful. (Because you created it.)
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The program is the container.
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The process the program takes them through is what is needed.
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They don’t need me; they need the content that the program contains.
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The transformation is in:
>> The process the course takes them through
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>> The energy and intentions that is contained in the course/the energy it was recorded in
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>> The faith and dedication the student show up with
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3. What they need more than anything is their own belief.
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I said this to my mastermind this morning: People sometimes get the entire transformation they need just from signing up.
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Sometimes people sign up believing and that is the signal to themselves and the universe that they are going bigger.
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Sometimes people have an ah-ha half way through module one and feel done with the course.
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Some people go through the course 12 times and have a revelation each time.
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I can not control what they do.
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It is my responsibility to make it easy to sign up
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Once they do, it’s theirs to use as needed.
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I have no control over how someone chooses to utilize the content.
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I deliver the content I said I would. And to show up for Qs the way I said I would.
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(And I do a lot that no body sees.
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I pray over the group. I hold space. I move energy.)
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My intention is this: Everyone will get what they need.
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But I’m not them. I’m not God. I’m not responsible for them.
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Or their process. Or their progress.
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All I can do is my part.
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(PS: Who is the decider/dictator around what makes something good enough, anyway? What is the measuring system for that?)
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4. Let it be enough.
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I have yet to re-record a module for any of my courses.
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“Don’t you listen to it and think of more things you’d like to say?”
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No. Why would I torture myself in that way?
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And if I do feel there is more to say, I record a bonus or additional module.
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(It makes more sense to place a more advanced module at the end anyway, so that the course builds on the earlier concepts as people go through it.)
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Here is another reason my courses get better and better each year:
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The collective energy and collective belief in the processes contained in the course has added up even more. It has been discussed and been anticipated more and more with each year.
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My belief has grown, the collective understanding of the processes has grown and I often add new, more advanced content each year. (Since alumni to each course get life time updates for that course, everyone is happy.)
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To be clear, I do not add content to make it worthy.
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Or to make it good enough. Or to make me good enough.
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I add content to make it even better.
I believe in the process. I believe in the container.
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I believe in the energy it was recorded in.
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I believe in myself. I know I am enough.
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Hear me:
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Your creation is enough because you created it.
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Your creation is enough because of the energy you created it in.
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Your creation is enough because you know it is.
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It’s enough once you know it is.
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But, once again, you are not God. You are not other people. You are not responsible for how people choose to use things and are led to do things.
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And IF you want to help many people on a massive scale, you are going to have to let go of the idea that the transformation can ONLY be found in a one-on-one call with you.
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They need your energy, understanding, insight, processes, etc.
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And you can infuse the above into anything. Including recorded content.
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And let the content do what it was created to do.
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There is transformation in my YouTube videos, on my FB posts (some written years ago), on my IG page, on this blog, in my courses, in my bundles, etc etc etc.
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Because I know this I can serve hundreds of thousands of people AT ONCE.
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And trust that each piece of content will do what it was created to.
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And that’s it. That’s enough.
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AND OF COURSE I believe in the power of my Mastermind and Private Coaching… duh.
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But, if you haven’t noticed, people show up expecting greatness + ready to do the work and receive when they are one-on-one with someone.
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And if they can afford my small group or 1:1 offers, then they have a lot of practice doing the above.
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However, how someone shows up to coaching or a course or a mastermind is not my responsibility.
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Conclusion: Stop making your life hard. Stop taking responsibility for other people’s choices.
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Stop re-recording content that is already epic.
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I love you.
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