* how to drop the damn struggle *

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Hiya my pretty friend!
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Let’s talk real shit.
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We all lose our center from time to time. A crazy thought or limiting belief or (seemingly) out-of-control situation consumes us… And as we analyze it and justify it and move into IDENTIFYING with it… We can start to give it our power.
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And if you’ve been following me very long, you know how I feel about power.
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Our power is everything. Our power is in our thoughts, words, and energy.
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What we focus on expands. 
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When we harness and focus our power for good, we can manifest fucking anything; but when we allow shitty situations to consume us, we leak our precious energy and give our power away.
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As we focus on the illusion/situation/bullshit — we grow it. We put our power in it. And we lose our way.
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We forget who we really are.
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Instead of identifying with love and power and grace and possibility, we identify with lack and sickness and confusion and drama.
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And, trust me, I am not immune. I found myself caught in the cyclical thinking of a crazy illusion not so long ago. One thought led to another and that thought to another and that thought to another until I was perplexed out of my mind. Things felt totally out of control.
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I felt powerless.
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But the truth is, I made a choice. I chose to identify with the confusion. I chose to live in the energy of the problem. I chose to let this situation grow in my mind.
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Then, I finally remembered my truth: Everything I need can be found in that quiet place within. And I can always choose to come back home to myself and my highest truth.
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This is what I tell my clients while they are learning to change their thoughts, increase their worth, or manifest anything: You do it one million times a day.
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Our work is not that we choose the positive thought, release the fear or forgive the person ONCE — The work is that we do this as many times as it takes. Over and over. Continually.
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And slowly, you shift your experience. You start to see the light. You stop identifying with the confusion. You see things more clearly. You drop the damn struggle.
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And then it gets easier. Much, much easier.
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Gabrielle Bernstein says it like this, you move from living in the darkness and experiencing fleeting moments of light, to living in the light and experiencing fleeting moments of darkness.
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We must choose to come back home into our self/truth/center over and over again until the experience of peace and love is so stronger than the experience of fear, lack or confusion.
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That’s how you take your power back. That’s how you bring peace to your mind. That’s how you come back home.
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It might feel weird or funky applying this principle to a new area, but as I’m learning, it applies to fucking everything.
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Say it with me. I choose to drop the struggle. I choose to come back home. Peace is available for me. I am willing to see things differently. I am willing to choose again… Over and over again.
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If you currently identify with the struggle around having/earning/feeling worthy of money (or want to increase your experience of having more money), then my Money Mentality Makeover will be a game-changer for you. See what people are saying about it: here.
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Massive massive love,
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PS Y’ALL: I am going to Europe! I leave TODAY for a MONTH abroad to celebrate my 30th birthday and I am out of my effing mind excited for the adventure.Follow my journey on Facebook (here) and on Instagram (here).
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As always, I’ll keep you guys upto date on the day in and day out of designing a life and business I am BEYOND completely wildly obsessed with.
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